The Paris Olympics showcased a roster of remarkable athletes and their inspiring stories. Among them, Philippine athletes have notably made their mark, demonstrating exceptional skill and perseverance. However, behind the scenes, some stories reveal the personal struggles that come with competing at such a high level. Take, for example, the recent episode involving gymnast Carlos Yulo. It began with his mother publicly criticizing him, followed by a heartfelt apology to the world. This incident was disheartening and not something we’d hope to see. However, here is another athlete who deserves our attention: EJ Obiena who competed in the pole vault.
Obiena’s performance in the Olympics was impressive but fell just short of a medal, landing him in fourth place. After his event, he penned a touching message to the Filipino people, expressing his disappointment at missing out on a medal by a narrow margin. Despite his youth and impressive track record, Obiena described himself as a failure, revealing a deep frustration with his performance.
Such sentiments are concerning and highlight a broader issue: the intense pressure that today’s athletes place on themselves. While it’s commendable to strive for honor and glory for one’s country, it’s equally important to maintain mental well-being. Failure is a part of any competitive journey, and it’s crucial to acknowledge this and use setbacks as opportunities for growth. As University of Cebu Chancellor Candice Gotianuy wisely noted when congratulating weightlifter Elreen Ando, “When you fall seven times, you can always stand up eight.”
The drive to represent the nation with distinction is commendable, but it’s essential to remember that success isn’t solely defined by winning medals. The journey also involves setting new records, forging friendships, and creating opportunities that may lead to future successes. I empathize with Obiena’s experience, as I too once sought perfection in my own pursuits. My childhood was marked by a relentless drive to excel which, in adulthood, translated into anxiety and mistrust. Being part of a team or striving for personal goals can be draining and challenging.
It’s heartening to see young individuals dedicating themselves to representing the Philippines on the global stage. Our Olympians, ranging from their twenties to early thirties, reflect a promising future for Philippine sports, provided we continue to support them. We must recognize that we have the potential to excel in world-class sports, but it’s equally important to maintain our mental health throughout the process.
If you know someone who is struggling like EJ Obiena, offer your support and remind them they are not alone. Self-pity and harsh self-judgment can be detrimental, but encouragement and understanding can make a significant difference. Let us celebrate not just the victories but also the resilience and determination that our athletes display. In the end, it’s about embracing the journey, learning from setbacks, and moving forward with renewed strength and hope.