Day of the Dead

“Coco” is one of my favorite animated films. It is inspired by the Mexican tradition of honoring the dead on November 1. Just like our culture, they light candles on an “Ofrenda” which is an altar composed of dead family members' photos. I resonate with this film a lot because of how similar we are to those in it. Filipinos always give value to All Souls' Day and Saints' Day, just like it was Christmas time.

This might be due to our deeply-rooted family system. We have been taught to keep our families close by, even if they have already passed. Thus, we give value to our departed ones. That explains why people rush to go home just to light a candle on their grave. On looser security measures, others would gather by the mausoleum and play the favorite tunes of the dearly departed. The good times are reminisced within the day, especially when they were still alive.

The abstract concept of heaven and the afterlife is ingrained in our culture. We believe that our ancestors are still listening to us somehow. As candles are lit, we say a little prayer and a dedication to them. We hope that they will continue to guide us. Hope is also symbolized by the light that their path will also be guided. Our hearts are full whenever these obligations are fulfilled even if there is no scientific evidence to all these customs. This is simply because it is our heritage, our signature.

Authorities are given the burden to this season as they secure the cemeteries. The conduct of these two days should be smooth. It is now up to the Philippine National Police along with auxiliary personnel. There are strict entry checks where bags are inspected. Contraband items are not allowed inside. These include sharp objects, anything flammable, and loud, among others.

Me and my husband dodge through many lost people who cannot seem to find their loved ones. It is this time once a year that the cemetery becomes a big labyrinth that even those in charge cannot solve. We move from the traditional candles to electric light bulbs for a duration of three days. Others will say it is capitalizing on the dead, but it is a form of respect for most families. Just like Coco, they need to see their way to the world of the living on these special days.

This year's Day of the Dead is rather different as it falls under the week of the village and youth council elections. There might be more people coming home for this special occasion. The laughter might be louder as the family reunion will call for it. I cannot wait to hear my father's and aunt's stories about my grandparents, one of whom I'm named after. It will be a special time for all Filipinos. Those with bad intentions should understand this, as if they also don't have families. Just like Coco, her father's song was always "Remember Me". Let's remember them.