We’re now approaching the end of the year. Before we get consumed with thoughts about Christmas celebrations, there’s one other thing that we might realize we need to do at this time. Dealing with the accumulated clutter.
Not finding things when we need them or jamming our life with things that are neither useful nor necessary can be stressful. Clutter is a very common problem among us, especially in homes. It makes the house anything but the peaceful haven it ought to be. A box or bag, or anything added to the piles that stuff every space in the house, proportionately increases the stress level of the house dwellers.
Stress may be inevitable in life, but much of it can be avoided. The home is a good place to start. The fact that stress can escalate exponentially by itself should be enough to jolt us into trying to control it. A few simple steps can do a lot in reclaiming the sense of peace and order in our homes, and in your lives.
Avoid accumulating things. The best way to keep down clutter – and the stress it can cause – is to stop bringing it into the house at all. Consider the amount of grocery plastic bags, boxes, and other containers we bring home each time we visit a store. For sure, we can easily cut it by half without experiencing any significant inconvenience. And these free product literatures we collect everywhere will mostly end up at a corner in the living room, without even getting read. Therefore, we should be careful about taking it. If we’re really curious, let’s just read it quickly and give it back to the flyer boy.
Discard periodically. Once or twice a week, let’s pick up a drawer, shelf or other small areas in the house where clutter has collected. Then start discarding. There is always an old item we can give to a friend or neighbor, anything we have very little or no more use for – old clothes, utensils, gadgets, books etc. Let’s give them to someone who may use it more, rather than letting it gather dust or rust and take up precious house space. Or we may try the “one-in-one-out” rule: if we bring anything new into the home, something old shall be removed at the same time. There are many other things that we know we don’t have real need for but keep just in case we’ll need them.
Leave the office behind. Without careful awareness, work is often carried home. This practice can be very unhealthy, especially for those whose jobs are quite stressful. It can cause of both actual and psychological clutter. As much as possible, office work must be contained to the office. Home shall be a prize to look forward to at the end of the day. No work related thoughts or discussions shall be entertained after we have physically gotten out of the office. The travel time from the office to the house can provide a good transition from work to relaxation. It’s good to listen to melodious music while on the road home.
Assign a place for everything. Let’s have a place to put everything we regularly use near to where we use them. For example, a flashlight near the fuse box or an umbrella by the door or the toolbox in the garage. This can prevent not only frantic searches, but also saves us from having to decide again and again where belongings should go. And of course, it can save a lot of time to gather related types of things close together. The socks bin should be near the shoe rack and the shoe-polish kit and the corn-cushion strips. Books go with paper and pens and note pads and stapler and scotch tape.
Slay the paper tiger. In an average day, many of us handle a staggering number of paper items – bills, mails, brochures, magazines, newspapers etc. These can accumulate to quite a bulk. If we must let these potential clutters into our homes, better we set aside a time for dealing with them, at least. Sifting mails next to a waste basket makes it easy to throw away anything unimportant. Likewise, assigning a cut-off time for newspaper reading, after which the day’s papers are to be brought out of the house and piled for disposal. While browsing through mails or newspaper or any paper items, a notebook and pencil shall be on hand for jotting down any important information, like significant data, addresses and the like. It’s not necessary to keep a whole thick brochure just for a phone number.
As we decide on the fate of each of the things that crowd our home, let’s ask ourselves: Does this item enhance my life now? Do I really need it? The answer will determine which one stays and which one goes away.