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Call me old fashioned, but today, I want to talk to business people on the topic of marriage. The Ilocana and I have spent more than half of our lives together.

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Success is the singular goal that everyone aspires for — regardless of race, age, gender or creed.

[DatePublished] => 2009-02-23 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 135042 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1154514 [AuthorName] => Aurora Diaz-Wilson [SectionName] => Lifestyle Business [SectionUrl] => business-life [URL] => ) [2] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 302087 [Title] => Sexy and swinging at 60 [Summary] => Sixty. The number ignited with vicious honesty. I remembered our parents reaching that age and I thought, "Omigosh! They were as ancient as the renowned museums we visited together." But looking again, there were no rocking chairs, hearing aids or walking sticks in our house, and the only hint of aging was the Polident soaking solution used for dentures and bridges.

Now, it’s our turn. In the new millennium, 60 is no longer the downside of a wave, middle age, or old age. Neither is it necessarily a forecaster of how you or I should behave.
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If I had my life to live over...
[DatePublished] => 2004-10-03 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 135045 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1632711 [AuthorName] => NOTES FROM THE EDITOR By Singkit [SectionName] => Starweek Magazine [SectionUrl] => starweek-magazine [URL] => ) [4] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 247602 [Title] => ROLE REVERSAL [Summary] => Becky stood in front of her grieving mother and wrapped her arms around her so that her mom’s head rested on her bosom. When I caught her gaze, she looked at me sadly and said, "I could not allow my mother to see my father’s remains being pushed inside the crematory furnace that way. It was brutal." I agreed with her.

My friend was not probably aware of it – this reversal of roles. Her mother has become the child, and she has become the mother. She’s now the guardian, the head of the family, the matriarch.
[DatePublished] => 2004-04-25 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133272 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1461085 [AuthorName] => Letty Jacinto-Lopez [SectionName] => Sunday Lifestyle [SectionUrl] => sunday-life [URL] => ) [5] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 239798 [Title] => To live life over again [Summary] => Festivals for twins and triplets and quadruplets have been held in the US, Canada, Mexico, United Kingdom, Australia, France and Singapore, but for the first time it will be held here tonight, February 21, at Clam Shell 2 in Intramuros.
[DatePublished] => 2004-02-21 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 134209 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1804859 [AuthorName] => Domini M. Torrevillas [SectionName] => Opinion [SectionUrl] => opinion [URL] => ) [6] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 235035 [Title] => Legacy [Summary] => God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. – Psalm 46:1

Erma Bombeck wrote a column about the conflicts that sometimes occur as siblings divide family items after a parent has died. Whether it’s the mixing bowls, grandma’s quilts, or the Christmas ornaments, people are often convinced that they alone should have a certain item. Bombeck said she never wanted a TV set or a tote bag to remember her parents, because their true legacy to her was the way they lived, not what they left behind.
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Call me old fashioned, but today, I want to talk to business people on the topic of marriage. The Ilocana and I have spent more than half of our lives together.

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Success is the singular goal that everyone aspires for — regardless of race, age, gender or creed.

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Now, it’s our turn. In the new millennium, 60 is no longer the downside of a wave, middle age, or old age. Neither is it necessarily a forecaster of how you or I should behave.
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If I had my life to live over...
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My friend was not probably aware of it – this reversal of roles. Her mother has become the child, and she has become the mother. She’s now the guardian, the head of the family, the matriarch.
[DatePublished] => 2004-04-25 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133272 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1461085 [AuthorName] => Letty Jacinto-Lopez [SectionName] => Sunday Lifestyle [SectionUrl] => sunday-life [URL] => ) [5] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 239798 [Title] => To live life over again [Summary] => Festivals for twins and triplets and quadruplets have been held in the US, Canada, Mexico, United Kingdom, Australia, France and Singapore, but for the first time it will be held here tonight, February 21, at Clam Shell 2 in Intramuros.
[DatePublished] => 2004-02-21 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 134209 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => 1804859 [AuthorName] => Domini M. Torrevillas [SectionName] => Opinion [SectionUrl] => opinion [URL] => ) [6] => Array ( [ArticleID] => 235035 [Title] => Legacy [Summary] => God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. – Psalm 46:1

Erma Bombeck wrote a column about the conflicts that sometimes occur as siblings divide family items after a parent has died. Whether it’s the mixing bowls, grandma’s quilts, or the Christmas ornaments, people are often convinced that they alone should have a certain item. Bombeck said she never wanted a TV set or a tote bag to remember her parents, because their true legacy to her was the way they lived, not what they left behind.
[DatePublished] => 2004-01-14 00:00:00 [ColumnID] => 133272 [Focus] => 0 [AuthorID] => [AuthorName] => [SectionName] => Daily Bread [SectionUrl] => daily-bread [URL] => ) ) )
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