Gorayeb’s musings

This writer had the pleasure of interviewing multi-titled volleyball coach Roger Gorayeb, in what proved to be a deep, thoughtful discussion on the present and future of the sport for the Philippines. The soft-spoken but steely mentor has apparently put a lot of thought into how transitory coaching and playing can be, and what would help the national team prosper.

“Filipinos are impatient,” the former national coach observed. “We want to win right away. But you have to see what players you need. Can we get them? Usually, they’ve already signed contracts.”

Having built winning traditions in Ateneo and San Sebastian, Gorayeb believes the Philippines has enough material to compete within Southeast Asia. But beyond those borders, two things need to happen.

“We need to maintain the core of the team, not just compete then go their separate ways,” he explained in the vernacular, “When you get to Europe, the US, etc., foreign exposure is really important. The players will get the confidence to compete against taller, stronger teams.”

Gorayeb’s insights are a fruit of looking at life from a different perspective. Five years ago, he was diagnosed with multiple myeloma, and was even unconscious for two weeks while awaiting cancer treatment. The volleyball community was galvanized into action, pitching in to help with his hospitalization costs.

This writer relates strongly with what Gorayeb went through, having had my own near-death experience just six months ago. It really makes one look at life from a deeper level, and helps you realize what a blessing life is, and adds meaning to your mission. For this and more, we are grateful that Coach Roger still has much more that he can teach us about life, and volleyball.