Bea, pinatawad na ang sarili

Marami ang nagulat sa paghihiwalay nina Bea Alonzo at Dominic Roque ilang buwan na ang nakalilipas. Matatandaang naganap ang marriage proposal ng aktor kay Bea noong July, 2023. February nitong taon naman nang pumutok na ang balitang nagkahiwalay na ang dalawa.

Unang napabalitang si Bea umano ang nakipaghiwalay sa aktor at kinalaunan ay sinabi ng dalaga na ‘mutual decision’ ang nangyari. “Not that I owe anyone an explanation, I really don’t wanna talk about this anymore. During the time I did Tatler, that was like a month ago, medyo matagal na. That was the only time I talked about it. Then during 24 Oras, I didn’t have the intention to talk about it because I really wanted to give respect to the relationship that was. It became a mutual decision because eventually, we worked it out. It was a very serious relationship obviously. Yeah, eventually both parties agreed,” pagdedetalye sa amin ni Bea sa Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.

Tumagal ng tatlong taon ang relasyon ng dating magkasintahan. Maraming mga bagay umano ang natutunan ni Bea mula sa kanyang narasanan. “Well, I’ve always known I’m resilient but I didn’t know I’m less resilient. That made me stronger. Natutunan kong i-cancel talaga ‘yung mga noise na hindi kailangan sa buhay ko. And accept or embrace those opinions that adds values to my life. Maraming salamat, I’m grateful to all the beautiful memories and even the not so beautiful memories because it made me stronger. It made me who I am right now.

“I’m just having fun, meron na rin akong time makipag-hangout sa mga kaibigan ko and do the things that made me happy. I’m just enjoying my life. I guess I’m embracing the uncertainty. Kasi na-realize ko, minsan marami tayong plano sa buhay natin but God’s plans are always better. So, I’m just here to embrace the uncertainty. Kung ano ‘yung nakalaan para sa akin,” makahulugang pagbahahagi ng dalaga.

Lubos ang pasasalamat ni Bea sa kanyang mga mahal sa buhay na nakasuporta sa gitna ng mga pinagdaanan. “Malaking bagay ‘yung support system, my family and friends. Especially the recent one, I really made sure that mas introspective ‘yung process. I really made sure that I reflect on the things na mga pagkakamali ko o ‘yung mga bagay na nakasakit ng loob ko. That also made my relationship with God stronger. It’s all about trust eh, Tito Boy, and acceptance. First you have to accept the current situation, the circumstances that you are in. And trust that there will be better days and I feel like I have better days now. And I feel like there will be more better days in the future. Napakaimportante to let go and learn to walk away from the things that are not meant for you,” paglalahad ng aktres.

Para sa dalaga ay mahalagang magpatawad upang maalis ang bigat na nararamdaman. Napatawad na umano ni Bea ang aktor pati na rin ang kanyang sarili. “I think so, I don’t think I’ll be sitting here right now and talking about these things if I’m not okay and I haven’t forgiven. I have forgiven myself. Siyempre mabigat din sa loob mo ‘yon, ‘di ba? But of course, I’m not perfect. Marami pa ring bagay ang nagpapasakit at nagpapasama ng loob ko. Especially may mga bagay na nasasabi tungkol sa iyo na hindi totoo. I know that we’re actors, we’re public figures, it’s so easy to give opinions about us. Siguro I’ve been here for 24 years, I’ve been doing this for 24 years, and I have learned to accept that. But siyempre tao ka lang, nasasaktan ka pa rin. And sometimes it hurts when people forget that you are also human. It may seem that it is entertainment for them, but for you, it’s your real life,” paliwanag ni Bea.

(Reports from JCC)