"I know, some people look at me when I mention that like I must be fooling them, but its true," she insists. "What I do instead, since I obviously cant force something like that to happen, is I listen to my friends, try to empathize with what love problems they may be having, and I think about the hurt Ive received in my life, even if they were caused by things other than relationships."
But there may be nothing like experience, and who knows, if and when she does have that relationshipcomplete with the genuine euphoria and depression that it entailsher singing will be even more gut-wrenching. But for now, the public has certainly taken Nina to its collective heart foolish or otherwise.
Her first music video was "Heaven", a snappy number that was very slickly produced and had people sitting up and taking notice of this new artist. But as can be expected in the Philippines, land of lachrymose and beer-binging ballads (with matching tear drenched pulutan), it wasnt until her video "Jealous" shot up the charts with a bullet, followed by her cover of the Steve Perry song "Foolish Heart", that Ninareal name Marifil Nina Giradobecame the household name she is now (no wonder she uses simply Nina!). Touted as probable Best New Artist for MTV Lokal and scheduled to have her very first headlining major concert on June 28 at the Music Museum, Nina has arrived, in an industry noted for perpetuating the veterans, and giving new names less than 15 seconds in the spotlight.
Nina recounts her foray into the world of song. "At 17, five years ago, I turned professional. Before that, I had always loved singing and my father would enter me in any and every singing contest he could sign me up for. I began with a band called Excess, moved to Big Thing, then Silk, Mymp and the Essence band. With Essence, from the outset, I told them that I had submitted a demo to Warner Music and hoped to eventually establish myself as a solo artist. They understood and supported me, and to this day, theyre the regular band I use when I do my gigs and puwestos.
"The demo I submitted to Warner comprised of three songs, Foolish Heart, Breathe Again and Against All Oddsall ballads, (with) "Against All Odds sung in the style of Mariah Carey. Sight unseen, they signed me up and we have not looked back. Their plans include trying to break me in the Asian market, and if all goes well on that front, see if Warner International will pick me up to penetrate the US and European markets. If that time does come and they ask me to collaborate with one of the foreign Warner artists, my dream would be to do a song with Craig David." Move over, Sting?
While the Mariah Carey influence seems prevalent, Nina insists its not intentional. "She is one of my idols, but I dont consciously copy her style or inflection. Some people comment that we may have the same range of eight octaves, but Ive still got a long way to go to even come close to what she does with her songs," Nina avers. "The other artists Ive always loved listening to are Anita Baker and Whitney Houston. Among the newer artists, Im partial to Norah Jones, Alicia Keyes and Gwen Stefani of No Doubt."
Surprised by the mention of Gwen, we wonder if it sometimes frustrates her that shes so identified with ballads, when there are, in fact, other types of songs she may want to be known for. "In my live gigs, I get to indulge in my passion for all kinds of songs. We start with the ballads, move on to the groovy songs, then end the sets with very upbeat party songs," she replies. "Your question does bring up a point though. If there is one thing Id like to move on to, its to do more Tagalog songs. I only have one such song in the album. Eventually, Id also like to showcase the songs Ive composed. Ive been writing lyrics for sometime now, its just a matter of finding the right person to team up with, the one wholl provide the music. As for being known for ballads, that suits me fine. I do love singing them and for me, they are vehicles that can really show off ones singing prowess."
A regular on the GMA-7 Sunday noontime show "S.O.P.", Nina finds herself in good company. Besides the established trio of Regine Velasquez, Jaya and Lani Misalucha, shes with fellow younger artists Kyla and Karylle, among others. Her manager, Anabel Regalado, is connected with Star Records, an ABS-CBN subsidiary; and Nina is quick to dispel any contradiction in that fact. "Anabel took over as manager after I had signed with Warner and, in fairness to her, it was GMA-7 that first offered me a slot on their Sunday variety show."
As for boyfriend prospects, Nina jokes, "In my concerts, therell always be someone shouting they love me or that theyll marry me, but thats par for the course as a female performer. Some more serious ones send me notes explaining how theyve followed my career, mentioning how they remember me from when I used to be part of this or that band. Theyll even read my thoughts and reassure me that they arent stalkers," Nina laughs. "There are some guys I am eyeing, but I dont think they realize it. I am taking my time figuring out just how sincere and serious they are. Some of my friends say Im just being too choosy or too afraid of the hurt that may ensue, but I am just taking the days as they come, enjoying myself, and perpetually pinching myself to assure that its all really happening."
The constant reality check is surprisingand admirablein someone of only 22 years in an industry that in large part thrives on fantasy and escapism. "Not for anything, but things have happened at a very fast pace. I truly did not expect this much success to come so soon. Ive seen the careers of others who are just as talented as me, and I know I have much to be grateful for. Given I do have some kind of talent, I realize just how much of a role luck also plays in how things have happened. You can package as much as you want, have the talent to back up that marketing effort, do all the publicity and promotional work, but capturing the publics imagination is one thing you can never be sure of. For some reason, Im blessed, and Im very aware of that."
In her June 28th concert, Nina promises something different, novel twists on the staple of live gigs shes been doing for the past months. "This time out, therell be a segment thats acoustic, and then well move into the regular section. Therell be a selection of songs that Ive been rehearsing, and have purposely kept from my puwesto gigs," she promises, plus "a number of guy songs that Ill treat with my own style and signature."
Whatever happens, the raw talent is clearly evident. If you cant make it to her concert, keep a look out and catch her one fine night. While the TV spots do impress, they dont come close to showcasing what this spunky little girl is all about. And who knows, maybe that boyfriend is just around the corner.