Inseparable twins

. . . speaking the truth in love, [we are to] grow up in all things into Him who is the head – Christ. – Ephesians 4:15

A seminary student got into a heated debate with his landlord. They were discussing the teachings of a theologian whom the landlord thought was a heretic. The student, on the other hand, considered himself a follower of the man and his doctrines.

With an attitude of superiority, the young man showed his landlord a well-marked copy of a theology book written by this man. The landlord, who had little education but was a devout Christian, was overwhelmed by the young fellow’s greater knowledge. As a result, he felt frustrated and defeated.

Similarly, it’s possible for us to misuse the great spiritual truths of Scripture to hurt others. Maybe we’ve received instruction from a prominent Bible teacher, gained special insights into the Word, or memorized key Scriptures we can quote with ease. This give us the leverage either to put someone down or to build him up. If we misuse what we know, we may set Christians against each other and break up churches. Or we can use the truth to enlighten, edify, and enrich others when we accompany it with love.

Speaking the truth must never be separated from love (EPHESIANS 4:15). They’re inseparable twins! – Dennis J. De Haan

Lord, I must speak the truth in love

If seeking hearts would hear it,

For speaking with self-righteous pride

May wound another’s spirit. – Fusick


READ: EPHESIANS 4:1-16


The truth may hurt, but love helps ease the pain.

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