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Opinion

Treasured memories

Renester P. Suralta - The Freeman

Many of us have moments turned into beautiful memories. Who can easily forget the fond memories and nostalgic moments of the past? Reminiscing the good old days is easy when you reach your golden years. The pre-retirement stage will give you the moment and opportunity to recall sweet memories long gone!

Why should memories be treasured? Memories influence our actions; and the things we love, and we would be nothing more than a shell of a human being without our memories. It influences everything about an individual.

Memories strengthen our sense of identity and purpose; bond our relationships. Happy memories are an essential ingredient in present happiness. Bad memories are an integral part of our learning experiences.

It gives individuals a framework to make sense of the present and future.

During youth, everything is new, and in old age, everything is a memory. Memories that are often treasured include:

Happy moments with family and friends: Remember the whole family going to the beach, church, on vacation, and watching movies together? Those fun-filled moments provide us with precious memories.

Childhood memories, such as favorite toys, games, and activities: Who can forget outdoor street games like patintero, tumbang preso, piko, sipa, trumpo, and many more? Movie experiences and a trip to the zoo are the most cherished memories for children and adults.

Special events, such as birthdays, graduations, and weddings: These special occasions are celebrated regularly by many families as part of Filipino traditions with simplicity and grand. Usually, the kids' birthdays are the most celebrated than the parents.

Achievements and accomplishments: School achievements and work accomplishments are often valued. It is a source of joy, pride, and reward for many people. Awards and medals reflect one's character and attitude. Work accomplishment gets recognition, promotion, and salary raise.

Romantic moments and relationships: School is where it all began. It is where the first of everything started, like the first crush, first kiss, first dance, and first love. The first romantic relationship teaches joy and pain; identifies one's strengths and weaknesses.

Travel experiences and adventures: The first family travel experience to remote places broadens one's understanding and perspective. The first individual trip and the barkada adventures tell a thousand amazing stories.

Personal growth and self-discovery: With age comes wisdom. As we grow old, we become more mature. We will discover significant things to change our life forever.

Acts of kindness and compassion from others: The help we provide like a Good Samaritan can make a big difference. Compassion and kindness are admirable attributes that manifest our spiritual values.

Personal challenges and overcoming obstacles: When faced with adversity, our attitude and determination to survive have inspired others. To become a better person, we should face our fears.

Meaningful experiences shaped one's values and beliefs. Good and bad memories have strongly influenced our complete being. Treasured memories provide a vast experience and learning, wisdom, and power. So value every moment, for tomorrow, they will be memories.

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