Breaking the “as-usual” mold

We have to be wary of our strong tendency to fall into routine that can spawn many other anomalies such as complacency, spiritual lukewarmness, mediocrity, a self-satisfaction that seeks no further improvement in oneself, etc.

It’s true that many times we do the same things day in and day out. But we should try our best that we avoid falling into simply doing them mechanically, that is, mindlessly and/or deprived of the love that is always needed in all our activities.

Besides, with how things are now, many times we really have to react to the ways things are done usually because of the many imperfections such ways have. That is why many people give a negative connotation of resignation or surrender when they say ‘politics as usual,’ for example, or ‘business as usual.’

We have to see to it that whatever we are doing, even if it is done in a routine way due to its nature, should be done with love. Where there is love, everything will always appear and feel new and fresh even if it is done a thousand times in a day and even for a long period of time. We would never get used to them.

With love, there will be no boredom at all. Tiredness will hardly be felt. The dangers of stress are properly handled. There will always be some kind of drive and zeal, a sensation of excitement, thrill, and suspense.

Of course, this is easier said than done. Given our human condition, we cannot deny that we are easily prone to all these not-so-welcome situations of boredom, tiredness, stress, etc. But we have a way of dealing with these predicaments.

And what is this way? It is the way that Christ taught and showed. It is to actively look for the reason to love, which in the end is a matter of looking for God. Otherwise, we would just succumb to our human limitations and weaknesses, and put ourselves prone to temptations.

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you,” Christ said. (Mt 7,7) In other words, we should not just wait for some special inspiration to come to us for us to continue loving God through what we are doing. We have to actively look for love, for God in the routine things we do.

And neither should we just have that attitude of following where the things will lead us, a rather popular meme among some young people today. Given our limited, not to mention, weakened and wounded condition, if we just follow where things will lead us, then sooner or later will we find ourselves nowhere, or confused, if not lost.

We have to actively look for God, by making acts of faith, hope and love. In that way, even in situations that challenge or go beyond our comprehension and our human condition, we can still manage to do things with love.

And this should be done irrespective of whether our moods, our physical, emotional, psychological and intellectual condition at a given moment are favorable or not in making those acts of faith, hope. and love.

In this way, we would be asserting our spiritual and supernatural bearing, freeing ourselves from the grip of our purely material and worldly condition. And we would get to see things differently.

Even the negative events—the difficulties, challenges, even the failures, setbacks, etc.—acquire meaning, shed new lights, provide new angles of understanding. As St. Paul would put it, “all things work together for good to them that love God.” (Rom 8,28)

We have to help one another acquire the skill of breaking the “as-usual” mentality and lifestyle, so common these days. We have to help everyone to do things with real love, so that even in their routine activities, they will see things always new and fresh, and urged to embark on an adventure of love. [email protected]