Kakabakaba Ka Ba? (FQ Mom’s Take on the Stock Market Roller Coaster Ride)
1. Long-term nature. When you decide to be a parent you sign up for a long-term engagement. In the same way when you decide to invest in the stock market you have to have a long-term investment horizon. Sometimes I wonder why some self-appointed stock market gurus say, “I’m here for the long term, about two years!†Say what? Well, if you’re lucky to ride a bull market that may be ok but long-term should really be long-term, 10 years or more. Now the problem is when we say 10 years, a lot of people will back out already and I guess that’s why these gurus shorten their definition of long-term, to entice more followers. Try being a short-term parent and let’s see what happens to your child.
2. The jittery newbie investor is like the first time parent. When one becomes a parent for the first time everything has to be sterilized to the max, each tiny mosquito bite is a big deal, lactating moms are worried about their milk supply that they immediately switch to formula to make sure their infants are not starved. In the same way, newbie investors get worried about each price fluctuation movement of their stocks, “I should have bought at this price, or sold at this price, etc.†And understandably, they’re the ones who expressed the greatest worry in the recent downturn. I once read in a parenting book, “When a baby teether is dropped on the floor (teether is an object for a baby to bite on to ease the gums during teething stage), the first time mom would sterilize it, second-time mom would rinse it with water, and a third time mom would blow off the dust!â€
4. Devote time. Raising children needs time. I’ve always believed that quality time is quantity time. In the same way, you need to devote time to study what you’re getting into before you jump in. Time in the market is more important than timing the market.
5. Simplify. These days there’s a tendency for parents to overschedule their children’s calendars. Simplify, there’s no need for them to be involved in all sorts of activities at the same time. It’s the same with your portfolio; keep it simple – go for the blue chips. Here’s a guide question, “Given all the economic and political upheavals we’ve been through, which listed companies continue to be stable and profitable?†List down your answers and have these stocks in your portfolio
6. No need to be a Supermom/dad. Relative to number 4, there is also no need to be a do-it-all and have-it-all Supermom/dad. If you’re a busy parent you can ask for the help of your mom (if she likes) or hire a yaya. In the same way, if you don’t think you can actively invest on your own, hire your fund yayas, I mean fund managers. Most of the time, you’re better off invested in pooled, managed, or index funds rather than doing yours haphazardly. There’s always a lot of newbie casualties who enter the market for the first time during a bull run. As they say, “Everyone’s a genius in a bull run!†making a lot of newbies prematurely and unnecessarily over-confident. The sad thing is if they get burned during the correction, they will forever avoid the stock market. Word of caution also to those buying funds: In the same way that you should not over-delegate to your yaya, you should also monitor your fund manager’s performance.
7. Give your good child a break. Imagine your son or daughter always bringing home honors and awards. Sometimes all these achievements raise everyone’s expectations that the next time he/she loses in a competition or doesn’t make it to the honors list, it’s as if it’s a mortal sin. In the same way, let’s give the PSEi a break. It has gone up so high and has been recognized globally as one of the best performing markets in the world. I am not so happy when I read articles that try to justify the downturn by saying that our economy’s improvements are not real and are not trickling down to the masses. The reason why it’s called trickle down is that it’s a slow movement.
8. Don’t give up on your child/our economy. Good parents do not give up on their child. This is our country and we should see to it that we invest in its growth and improvement.
9. Cost averaging in parenting. It’s not in the big bets on the hot tips that you will make money in the stock market. It’s in cost averaging or the regular investing of a certain amount in your chosen blue chip stocks over a long period of time that you will earn your best returns. In parenting, it’s not the grand and expensive vacations, big celebrations or expensive toys that you will raise your children well. Although you will see them excited with these big ticket items, it’s really in the everyday dinner conversation, praying together at night, sharing and laughing at each other’s jokes, praising good and reprimanding bad behavior, doing ordinary and sometimes mundane things for your children like tutoring, seeing to it that they brush their teeth properly, take a bath everyday, eat the right food, etc. that you will raise your children well and reap the rewards of parenting. Those little acts of love deposited in the children’s and parents’ love tanks are the ones that will enable your family to weather the conflicts and crises that you will encounter.