I am a regular reader of the Philippine STAR and I admire the way you answer your letters. It always gives me something to ponder on.
I’m 26 years old and have a stable job. I live with my mom and sister since my father has already passed away.
This is about my sister who is a flight stewardess. She comes home at least three or four times a month, a few days at a time. The thing is, whenever she’s at home, she likes to walk around the house clad only in a mid-rib loose shirt and panties. My mom doesn’t seem to mind since she is so used to this behavior.
I once asked my sister why she dresses that way. She replied that during trips she is always so dressed up, when she is at home she prefers to dress down.
The problem started late one evening when she asked me to give her a massage. Of course I obliged. She had just finished taking a shower when I came in, and was just wrapped in a towel. I started to massage her from her back down to her legs.
This has happened a few times already. Of course my mom doesn’t know anything about this because when she is around we always act as a brother and sister should.
My question is this: Is this a natural thing to do? My sister says she is still a virgin. Have I somehow de-virginized her by my act? I have never tried to make love to her but I like massaging her as much as she likes getting the massages. Is this what they call incest? What do you make of all this?
Joy
Dear Joy,
Your name misled me. I have never received a letter from a brother named "Joy." I decided to censor your letter but answered it nonetheless because your problem maybe uncommon to the very naive.
You are right. What you and your sister have done is indeed incestuous. I cut off the paragraphs where you described what you did to make your sister "moan in ecstasy." What you have done is wrong and you should stop. You should tell your sister that you would like for her to meet a man who can become her husband in the future and that you would like to meet a girl that you can marry.
Be a good brother and end what you and your sister have started.
Tita Chits