ARIES (March 21-April 19). Everybody has a different meaning for success, but it’s time for you to focus on your own definition and not worry about the opinions of others. Do you love, and are you loved? That is a great accomplishment.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Sometimes, it’s hard to turn the other cheek and not retaliate with anger. That kind of quick-to-take-arms kind of approach will only fuel the fire. For peace of mind, take extra time to connect with an animal friend.
GEMINI (May 21-June 21). You may feel like you have been holding back in your relationship for fear of being hurt again. It’s time for major overhaul in your attitude when you ask yourself, "When is the other shoe going to drop?"
CANCER (June 22-July 22). Your instincts are good, but don’t push the subject. If you force your partner to talk before he or she is ready, you both end up saying things you do not mean. Take responsibility for your own feelings.
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). Focus on ways to live a more fulfilled life. The question, "What do I want out of my life?" may seem too philosophical, but the answer has very practical applications. True love is waiting for you, but it won’t wait forever.
TODAY’S BIRTHDAY (February 19). You accomplish just what you set out to this year! The next three weeks are your energetic start. Invitations are plentiful; among them is one that leads to better employment and more money. Cancer or Gemini help you come up with a big money plan. This spring features a move – perhaps out of state. Your lucky love signs are Taurus and Cancer. Your lucky numbers are: 10, 49, 35, 27 and 31.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). Walk away from a heated discussion today, even when your opponent wants to keep stirring things up. If you need time to think, then take it. A simple "I’ll get back to you in one minute" will do the trick.
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). You have all the resources at your disposal to create the love life of your dreams. One valuable tool toward getting who you want may not be in the usual place you go looking for help.
SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). A mighty oak tree is just a seed that held its ground. Don’t give in to peer pressure when you stand alone in your singular opinion. It may feel lonesome, but it will be worth it when others see it your way.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). Big ideas! Let those gems fly, and don’t sit on a single one of them. One especially brilliant moment leads to a promising new source of revenue. However, do pass on an investment that sounds too good to be true.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Your response to an afternoon event makes the difference between being seen as a winner or being seen as someone who would do what any average human would do. Resolve to be remarkable.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). You start with your head, thinking about what you want to do and weighing the pros and cons before taking any action. Double-check phone numbers, addresses and the like before trying to make contact.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Not making a decision is sometimes the most detrimental choice you can make. Your career is simply not going to get to the next level without some serious hard work. It’s time to face facts! Make a plan.
ASTROLOGICAL QUESTIONS: "I’m a Libra with Leo rising and Taurus moon. No matter how many times I try to break it off, I always end up back with an Aries man born April 7, 1967. He knows which of my buttons to push. The reason we keep breaking up is his failure to commit – not to anyone until his career goal has been reached. He’s an actor. Do you think there is any astrological button I could push to bring him over the edge so we can have a truly committed relationship? I support his career decision."
You are a lovely person, a true friend and one who thrives on feeling intimately connected, especially with someone out of your reach. There’s a touch of masochism going on here. He’s the same way, preferring the one he can’t have. That’s why every time you break up with him, you’ve got the upper hand and he’ll always come back. Stop supporting his career decision. It’s a crock. There’s no reason he can’t be an actor in a committed relationship. In fact, being able to commit and love someone deeply will only enrich his work and is hurting it now. Break up with him until he can come back on your terms, and stiffen your terms.
CELEBRITY PROFILES: Lovely Diane Lane is an Aquarius with Mercury and Venus in Capricorn. This mixture of smart and cool is something every high school student wishes he or she could bottle – it makes for a relatively stress-free adolescence. Lane and other Aquarius people born in ’65 could feel like they are going through a second adolescence this year when the things that mattered so much then matter again.
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