October 25, 2003

Drama, drama, drama – the Leo moon exaggerates everything romantic, leading to lots of grand entrances and exits. As long as you take things lightheartedly, it can be exhilarating. Remember: Everyone is part play-acting and part real. Avoid letting Jupiter trick you into thinking you should consume more than necessary.

ARIES (March 21-April 19). You figure out a long time ago that things are not always going to be fair. A loved one, however, just doesn’t get it yet. Be patient. You can lecture all you want, but your example is what will teach others to be successful.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). You’ll be the assigned protector of the group. Stick up for the underdog. Ask around about how everyone is doing and what their major concerns are. Time is of the essence tonight. Be proactive – avert distraction.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). Take control of what you can, and your realm of influence gets bigger. Challenge is the name of the game. Don’t worry about going with the flow or being liked. Your job is to speak your truth and do your best.

CANCER (June 22-July 22). Feeling good and being productive are the same thing now. Jump into the heart of a challenge. Just when you think there must be a better way, one presents itself. Don’t forget what you promised to a Taurus.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). A different social approach works for you. The inspiration of friends helps you reinvent yourself further. You cause ripples through the family by rocking the boat when nobody else is brave enough to do so.

TODAY’S BIRTHDAY (October 25). You know your heart this year. Charge ahead, as you’ve got a green light for big projects and self-improvement efforts for the next five weeks. Consider a change in living arrangements in November. There’s a chance to steal away in January, and you will meet romance head on. Excellent love prospects are Scorpio and Sagittarius. Your lucky numbers this year are: 4, 16, 1, 45 and 39.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). All the world loves a lover, and that’s what you are. It’s not hard to tell who’s interested. Sagittarius and Cancer strike your fancy. Make a work-related goal that puts you more in charge of your own schedule.

LIBRA (Sept.23-Oct.23). It does no good to worry, except to remind yourself that you can do some things better. Besides, lost contracts, money and opportunities can be regained – someone dreamy saves the day. Singles: Be open to different types.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Money, stability and self-esteem are intertwined in your mind, but they don’t have to be. Train your brain to separate these issues, and you’ll make money without big amounts of effort. Go with first impressions in matters of love.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). Cut your losses – a brand-new journey is ahead. You could get a sudden wave of public recognition that lets you know you’re on the right track. Make a fashion statement, and romantic hopefuls ask you out!

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Everyone wants to be your friend, and why wouldn’t they? You’re an excellent listener and have the most fun helping other people. You don’t expect anything in return, but you’ll be very happy with today’s outcome.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). A romantic overture may throw you off balance. The stability that a Virgo or Taurus provides is especially helpful if you’re looking for someone to talk to. Friendship seems like a lifesaver.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Your principles set the standard for others, so don’t settle for less. A little compassion goes a long way at home. You’ve got so much going for you, you can afford to extend that cranky person a little more slack.

ASTROLOGICAL QUESTIONS: "After 17 years of marriage, I am wondering if my husband and I will remain together. We argue over our teenage girls. They receive good/great grades in school and are caring about other people. He feels they are lazy and will not be prepared for the hard work of the real world. They side with me, and he has been very loud and abusive. Currently, we are living on different floors of our house. In the past, I let much slide, and now, I won’t. He stopped coming to family events with me and doesn’t want me to invite my family over. Is there any hope for a reconciliation? I’m Aquarius with Scorpio rising and Taurus moon. He’s a Leo with Leo rising."

Leo men often have overblown midlife crises. They are charismatic, loveable people who, unfortunately, have huge egos. This is the reason middle age is so difficult for them. The reason your husband is treating you and the girls so poorly is that he feels guilty for indiscretions that happened due to his crisis. Although he may no longer have a relationship with his conquest, he cannot get over the guilt until he comes clean to someone. If this relationship is to be saved, he’s got to tell the truth.

CELEBRITY PROFILES: Chef Emeril Lagasse is a culinary master who could double his empire this year as he and other Libra men born in ’59 experience a surge in public interest. With Venus in Virgo and Mars in Libra, he’s a stickler for details and will go to great lengths to express a specific artistic idea. Teaching is also in his chart, and his popularity relies not only on his ability to create great dishes but also to teach others.

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