I’m Jamille, an avid reader of your column. I really need your advice regarding my problem.
I have a textmate named Mike. He is from Pampanga. We’ve been texting each other for the past six months. We were textmates kahit na he was courting a girl named Kyla.
Pero the girl seemed not to mind him. Months passed at he started texting me with words "I Love You." I won’t text back with those words kasi I thought those were not for me.
Pero after several weeks, text na rin ako sa kanya ng "I Love You" words at to cut the story short, naging mag-on kami sa cellphone. His cousin Kate is also my textmate and she asked me one time kung kami na raw ba ni Mike. I answered "no" kasi hindi ko alam what’s the score between us.
I’m confused because I had a classmate in high school who is courting me up to now. He is Aljo. Hindi ko alam kung sasagutin ko siya because I have learned to love Mike already.
Mahal ko rin naman si Aljo dahil crush ko siya noong high school. Sino ba sa dalawa ang pipiliin ko?
Thank you and more power. Your response is highly appreciated.
Your avid reader,
Jamille "Gemini" of Cagayan de Oro City
Dear Jamille,
Ang mga kabataan ngayon, sinasagot ang kanilang manliligaw kahit na hindi pa sila nagkikita nang personal o hindi man lang sila nagkakakilala pa nang husto.
Okey na ba sa iyong naging mag-on kayo ni Mike sa pamamagitan lang ng cellphone? Ikaw lang ang makakasagot kung sino ang pipiliin mo sa dalawa. Si Aljo ay kilala mo na samantalang si Mike, nagkita na ba kayo in person? Sa palagay ko ay hindi pa dahil nasa Cagayan ka at si Mike ay nasa Pampanga, hindi ba? Ito ang isipin mo.
Dr. Love