Happiness
It doesn’t take much. Despite burdens like poverty and pollution, Filipinos tend to be happy. Why?
Is it plausible to think of happiness not as a state of mind or a state of the pocketbook, but as an actual sovereign state? Many surveys lead us down that path. In study after study on national happiness levels, my country, the
This is counter-intuitive to say the least. We Filipinos live in a country mired in poverty, political conflict, corruption and environmental destruction. On top of that, the Philippines is so regularly battered by typhoons, earthquakes, landslides, floods, volcanic eruptions and other natural catastrophes that it’s been ranked the world’s most disaster-prone nation by the Brussels-based Center for Research and Epidomiology of Disasters. Yet last Christmas, toward the close of a particularly wretched year, eight out of 10 respondents told a local research firm that they felt “optimistic” about 2008. No tropical depression here, folks.
This cheery outlook doesn’t reflect a national state of blissful ignorance. When ACNielsen asked Filipinos to evaluate their lives a few years ago, the respondents were clear-headed enough to give “fair” to “poor” ratings in areas like personal safety, economic well-being and general health—yet they went on to say they nonetheless considered themselves “very happy.”
For Filipinos, happiness isn’t material—it’s social. We’re happiest in a group: family, friends and immediate community, even strangers. I’ve seen it happen in many airports among perfect strangers: as soon as Philippine travelers drift in, they gravitate toward one another and soon form a boisterous crowd, exchanging jokes and mobile-phone numbers. The awesome range or peculiar Philippine nicknames, a source of amusement to foreigners, are tokens of how much such social groups mean to people: family and friends bestow the nicknames. Some Filipinos use a string of them over the years.
The small group is our bastion against life’s unfairness. Hundreds of years of bad government have taught us to expect little from impersonal institutions. We know that our leaders are corrupt, that our country is marred by inequality, that there’s plenty of injustice. We just try not to let it get in the way of enjoying life. Filipinos often describe themselves as mabaw og kalipay, or easily amused. There’s a dose of self-deprecation there. But let’s take it from the national to the personal level. We all know people who aren’t easily amused. You rarely think of them as happy. Filipinos are also known for a pair of connected traits: resilience and self-sufficiency. Instead of counting on government to help us, we help one another. In the
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