Divorce

Maghisgot ta’g diborsiyo, tungod kay ang mga nagpaluyo niini, ang mga advocates, hilabihang lipaya nga nilusot na kini sa Lower House, nga alang kanila, ang deborsiyo maoy final nga kasulbaran sa mga magtiayon nga dili na magkasabot, wala nay tingganay, ug lisud nang tumanon nga mag-‘till death do us part’ sila. Dili na sila makahuwat sa death, mag-part na lang.

Apan, yuna pa, God himself said (kana kon motuo ka pa og Ginoo): "It is not good that man should be alone, and from the beginning he made them a male and female, and blessed them

Sa new testament, nangutana ang mga Pharisees Hesus (Mk 10:1-2): Is it lawful for a husband to divorce. Mibalik og pangutana si Hesus, kon unsay sulti ni Moses bahin niini, ug mitubag sila nga mitugot man si Moses sa diborsiyo.

Katin-awan ni Hesus: “Because of the hardship of your hearts, he wrote you this commandment.” Gumikan sa kagahi sa ulo sa mga Pharisees, napugos na lang si Moses pagtugot  sa diborsiyo.

Padayon ni Hesus, “but from beginning of creation, God made them male and female. For this reason, a man he shall leave his father and mother and be joined to the wife. So, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.”

No human being, kono must separate. Unsa man na sila, human being ba? Atong masabot dinhi nga God’s intention is permanence of marriage, dili kay good for a certain period lang.      

Gi- analyze nga ang underlying cause, ang hinungdan sa panagbulag sa magtiayon, mao ang hardness of hearts, ang katig-a sa atong mga kasingkasing sama panahon ni Moses ug sa mga Pharisees.          

Si St. Paul nagkanayon: “The union of marriage reflects the mystical union of Jesus with his bride – the Church. Husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one hates his own flesh, but rather nourishes and cherries it, even if Christ does the church.”

Hinungdan nga dili gayud mobulag si Hesus gikan sa Simbahan.

Is divorce the ultimate solution? Google: “While divorce may provide temporary relief from an unhappy marriage, it rarely solves underlying problems and can even exacerbate them. Makapasamot ug makadugang sa problema.

“The real challenge with divorce is that it is not a solution, because the problems after the divorce do not disappear. In fact, there is a good chance that the divorce will create even bigger problems. If you are not happy with your marriage and think divorce will make you happier, think again.

“Divorce is the best solution when the couple has learned and understood the real reason why they should no longer be together. Not what they think or feel, beliefs and feelings, these are not facts.”

So, ang epekto sa diborsiyo temporaryo lang. Dili garantiya nga makab-ot na gyud nimo ang gihandom nga kalipay. Tingali unya nga ang imong gipuli nga asawa o bana mas badlongon kay sa orihinal, nga pinakaslan pa sa Simbahan.